Sunday, December 5, 2010

Today A New Day with A New Outlook, or Just a New Day with the Same Attitude?

It seems that today as ever sexually explicit, adverse, and open we try to be as a “society” there are still barriers to which we are not sexually accepted, sexually comfortable and sometimes just sexual…

We notice in other countries, they are open and honest about sexuality and don’t fear it, instead they embrace it… We claim to have an open mind to things here in the US, stating to embrace sexual preferences and hell just those being free about their sexuality. We are shown and told what is sexy through Tv, Radio, Movies, Magazines, and more… but who is to tell someone one what sexy is? What it looks like? What it should even feel like??

We’ve advanced in our technology and possibly with that have enabled those who are “closet cases” more so, to stay in the closet?? With “Sexting” have we enabled those to hide their sexual desires or have we opened a gateway to enable and help those figure out what they could possibly enjoy? Is this the new gateway to sex?? When it comes to sex, are we moving away from that “personal touch” to a “technical one?” From online sexual encounters or hook ups to one night stands… where are we moving as a society with sex or even sexual exploration?

Crazy Things for Love?

We have all heard about doing crazy things for love... but how far will one go for love? We have heard about those from years passed, that would write love letters everyday to their loved ones in wars, in different countries, and half way around the world... With a love so grand, what wouldn't we do for that love?

Love has transfomed, in almost the same way as our technology... so keeping in touch should not be hard, but so much more accessible... however, we find that more and more divorce cases occur, cheating and more... With the help of technology and all its advancements... has it caused many to be "Crazy in Love?"

With these crazy love symptoms, does this create an adverse reaction? and speaking of reactions, we see that if one is allergic to a food and consumes it, they could have rash, hives, and more... which shows our allergy or reaction, something to be seen...

So with Love what reaction should we be looking out for when it comes to those Crazy things for love? What stipulates Crazy versus Romanitc?

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Is All "Fair Game" Between Love and War?

We have seen throughout history that men have been fighting battles over land, over gold, over materialistic things, and today we still watch a continuous battle over the same things... As time has progessively passed are we still engaging in the same activities but with what kind of a result? It seems that we keep a record of history to try and "learn" from out past so that we may avoid those hardships for the present. But, with the hardships of love, are we keeping records of where we have been, who we have been with, and even what we have learned from our past relationships? We have all heard of the "little black book" but how many of us really have one? Are many of us just keeping a mental note on those that have been in and out of our lives? When it comes to keeping records and fighting for our beliefs, what is worth fighting for? Are the same people that are fighting for the trials; warsare they now our resource to "look up to" when it comes to matters of relationships? Even with games we've played as children we have built relationships with our partners, we have laughed, we've cried, and we've even had temper tantrums! how different are we from those games, such as chess? In ches we know its a game of strategy, concentration, and possibly even being able to forsee what could be... how different are the games we have played from those we are involved with in our daily life?

In a time wehre we are "jaded" by society, ar we willing to fight for love? We have been shown by history from the love letters of great men who have actually been in battle and still never forget their great love, they continued to fight and keep in contact as much as possible with their great love. Today, with all the options and technological advances, we have so many ways to keep in contact; in seconds we can get a text message, internet resource, or even an email. Yet, many of us never hear back from those we put ourselves out on the line for... We are shown that many choose to use "love" as a strategy for personal gain, but we all make those decisions in the end... I guess what we have to ask ourselves hwen we come to that point it... Are we willing to fight for a love? With these day to day battles, we must remember...

I AM willing to keep myself open to love.